Five Layers of Conversation For Evangelism

Good conversations can lead to gospel sharing.   Unless you have been invited in, it is difficult to introduce Jesus.  Here are some ways on how to lead a conversation to the gospel.   It is not necessary to follow this sequentially, but these layers may lead to deeper communication that eventually may open the opportunity for gospel sharing. 

Layer 1:  Hello!  This first layer is "breaking the ice."  While not all conversations do not have to start here, most effective conversations appreciate a cordial introduction.   A hello can be followed by any conversation starter like "what a good weather we have today" or "did you just see that crazy driver?"   

Layer 2:   "How is everything?"  or "How are you doing?"  This level allows a soft way for others to open up.  Nothing pointed.  This is not interrogation but just a casual, "what's up?" It also helps determine what areas the conversation can focus on.  

Level 3:  Pointed question.  Some conversation can outright start from a topic.   Asking "Hey Jim, do you remember last week how I told you I will pray for you about your exam? How did that go?"  Whether I'm talking on the phone or catching up with a friend, I normally look for common places. 

Level 4:  Prayer.   "How can I pray for you?"  Almost all people that I ask are courteous to respond to this question.   Even if there are no requests, I normally follow these question with "May i pray for you right now?"  

At best, these four layers promote further conversation that can lead to gospel sharing.  

Level 5:  Press the gospel in.  "What's your next step in your life?"  "May I share with you what happened to me?"  Deeper conversations are preempted by the willingness to learn.  This last level allows you to ask and close in the conversation with a prayer or suggestion.   

I hope these five layers of conversation helps you to understand the person you are talking to and give you a chance to move people closer to Christ.   

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